What happens when things go wrong?

If there’s one thing we’ve learned over the years, it’s that “life happens”. Depending on the situation, it can make things really complicated when you have a house full of paying guests. The charm of choosing a bed & breakfast means that you are staying in our home. All B&B’s in Nova Scotia by regulation are owner occupied. When we say you will receive an authentic experience, we mean it! In the ten years we’ve had our bed & breakfast, luckily there have only been a handful (or two) of times when things have gone “wrong”.

We brought an early newborn Sarah home from the hospital on Hallowe’en night 2004 to an almost full house. Those guests I’m sure will never forget the excitement of the two little boys welcoming their sister, carving pumpkins, and going trick-or-treating! (Although, as I tell my tourism students, that’s not an experiential tourism activity I’m willing to repeat!) 😉

Rooms after Hurricane Juan when we had no power for five days? Our German guests proclaimed that they “take cold showers anyway”. Breakfast on the barbeque and evenings by candlelight were a novelty – and dare I say, fun?!

Six months of strict bedrest while pregnant? The rest of the family stepped in.

A phone call that a motorcycle accident claimed the life of a cousin as we had breakfast plates in hand, ready to serve? We put on our “stage faces” and grieved when our guests had departed.

Scarlet fever in the house? We called our guests and found alternate arrangements before they arrived.

Anaphylaxis while a party is happening? One of us stays to “host” while the other sneaks out the back door to the hospital.

One of our favourite (maybe not the proper choice of words?!) stories is the time I had an allergic reaction to an antibiotic when we had a full house. I lost all feeling in my arms and legs. D’Arcy called 911 and the paramedics carried me through the hallway and downstairs to the ambulance in the middle of the night while I shushed them the entire time. One of them asked, “What’s the problem? Is this a boarding house or something?” Our guests had no idea!

Last night, we had a new experience. Our youngest daughter was sick. She was running a fever and her breathing was labored. It didn’t take long to realize she had moved from “bug” to “sick”; she was really struggling to breathe. Our previously booked guests (from Australia) were already checked-in and were on their way to go Tidal Bore Rafting. I told D’Arcy that I thought we needed to get her checked, so he drove us to the hospital (holiday Monday), leaving our boys in charge.

We had just been admitted to triage when my phone buzzed. It was Evan (our 14 year old) and his text read, “We have drop-ins”. D’Arcy left us and ran home quickly, to find that Evan had already taken the new guests on a tour, and signed them in! He said he “wasn’t comfortable” but did his best! 🙂

It turned out that Olivia was admitted to hospital immediately with bacterial pneumonia and the rest of us went into overdrive, making and changing plans. My dad came to our house to chat with guests  while D’Arcy looked after supper, bedtimes, and getting ready for a substitute at school today. The plan was made that I was going to take the night shift at the hospital and he was going to relieve me in the morning.  Our guests may have found it odd that a 14-year-old let them in, but I don’t think they realized the busyness or stress behind the scenes until D’Arcy admitted to them this morning that he was on his way to the hospital to be with his daughter.

We recognize that you go on vacation to leave the world behind and we do our best to ensure that happens when you stay with us. It’s just that sometimes are easier than others! 😉

Olivia is home now. Although not perky yet, the IV antibiotics helped. She’s a real trooper and didn’t cry or complain at all while we were there. (Other than telling me she wanted to go home.) That being said, our own beds feel really good tonight!

Olivia in the Truro hospital, on IV antibiotics for bacterial pneumonia. Yes, she wore her Bluenose Marathon Youth Run shirt each day from Saturday to Tuesday!

Olivia in the Truro hospital, on IV antibiotics for bacterial pneumonia. She’s worn her Bluenose Marathon Youth Run shirt each day from Saturday to Tuesday!

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5 comments on “What happens when things go wrong?

  1. Tina Hood says:

    Oh Anne you are an inspiration. If only alot of us could see the positive in such a situation. I do hope everything gets better for you all. Your in my thoughts and prayers!! love your friend Tina

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  2. Swimminhill says:

    Way to go Evan! I bet you’re proud that he stepped up. I’m so relieved that you’re all in the comfort of the “boarding house” now and hope Liv continues to improve. XO

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  3. marta says:

    Continuate cos, bravi!

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